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February 26

How To Be a Good Leader

Cover Story: Business

How To Be a Good Leader; During his long career, Welch mentored a generation of future CEOs. In an exclusive excerpt, his rules of the game.

By Jack Welch with Suzy Welch

4 April 2005

           

One day, you become a leader. On Monday, you're talking and laughing with colleagues about life and work, and gossiping about how stupid management can be. Then on Tuesday, you are management. You're a boss. Suddenly, everything feels different--because it is different. Leadership requires distinct behaviors and attitudes, and for many people, they debut with the job. Before you become a leader, success is all about growing yourself. When you become a leader, success is all about growing others.

Without question, there are lots of ways to be a leader. You need to look only as far as the freewheeling, straight-talking Herb Kelleher, who ran Southwest Airlines for 30 years, and Microsoft's quiet innovator, Bill Gates, to know that leaders come in all varieties. In politics, take Churchill and Gandhi. In football, take Lombardi and Belichick. Each of these leaders would give you a different list of "rules."

During my talks with students, managers and entrepreneurs, leadership questions invariably were asked. "What does a leader really do?" and "I was just promoted and I've never run anything before. How can I be a good leader?" These kinds of questions have pushed me to make sense of my own leadership over 40 years. I ran teams with three experienced people and divisions with 30,000. I managed businesses that were dying and ones that were bursting with growth. There were acquisitions, divestitures, organizational crises, moments of unexpected luck, good economies and bad. And yet, some ways of leading always seemed to work. These became my eight "rules."

First, a word on paradoxes. Leadership is loaded with them. The granddaddy of them all is the short-long paradox, as in the question I often get: "How can I manage quarterly results and still do what's right for my business five years out?" My answer is, "Welcome to the job!" Performing balancing acts every day is leadership. That's part of the fun of leading, though. You can only give it everything you've got. Here's how:

#1 LEADERS RELENTLESSLY UPGRADE THEIR TEAM, USING EVERY ENCOUNTER AS AN OPPORTUNITY TO EVALUATE, COACH AND BUILD SELF-CONFIDENCE. The team with the best players usually does win. And that is why, very simply, you need to invest the vast majority of your time and energy as a leader in three activities.

You have to evaluate--making sure the right people are in the right jobs, supporting and advancing those who are, and moving out those who are not.

You have to coach--guiding, critiquing and helping people to improve their performance in every way.

And finally, you have to build self-confidence--pouring out encouragement, caring and recognition. Self-confidence energizes, and it gives your people the courage to stretch, take risks and achieve beyond their dreams. It is the fuel of winning teams.

Too often, managers think that people development occurs once a year in performance reviews. That's not even close. It should be a daily event, integrated into every aspect of your regular goings-on. Customer visits are a chance to evaluate your sales force. Plant tours are an opportunity to meet promising new line managers. A coffee break at a meeting is an opening to coach a team member about to give his first major presentation. Think of yourself as a gardener, with a watering can in one hand and a can of fertilizer in the other. Occasionally you have to pull some weeds, but most of the time, you just nurture and tend. Then watch everything bloom.

#2 LEADERS MAKE SURE PEOPLE NOT ONLY SEE THE VISION, THEY LIVE AND BREATHE IT.  <we will be talking about this at the May Manager’s Event!>

Leaders have to set the team's vision and make it come alive. How do you achieve that? First of all, no jargon. Targets cannot be so blurry they can't be hit. You have to talk about vision constantly to everyone. A common problem is that leaders communicate the vision to their close colleagues and it never filters down to people in frontline positions.

If you want people to live and breathe the vision, "show them the money" when they do, be it with salary, bonus, or significant recognition. To quote a friend of mine, Chuck Ames, the former chairman and CEO of Reliance Electric, "Show me a company's various compensation plans, and I'll show you how its people behave."

#3 LEADERS GET INTO EVERYONE'S SKIN, EXUDING POSITIVE ENERGY AND OPTIMISM.   

An upbeat manager with a positive outlook somehow ends up running a team or organization filled with... well, upbeat people with positive outlooks. A sourpuss somehow ends up with an unhappy tribe all his own. Unhappy tribes have a tough time winning.

Work can be hard. But your job as leader is to fight the gravitational pull of negativism. That doesn't mean you sugarcoat the challenges. It does mean you display an energizing, can-do attitude about overcoming them.

#4 LEADERS ESTABLISH TRUST WITH CANDOR, TRANSPARENCY AND CREDIT.

Your people should always know where they stand. They have to know how the business is doing. And sometimes the news is not good--such as imminent layoffs--and any normal person would rather avoid delivering it. But you have to fight the impulse to pad hard messages or you'll pay with your team's confidence and energy.

Leaders also establish trust by giving credit where credit is due. They never score off their own people by stealing an idea and claiming it as their own. They don't kiss up and kick down because they are self-confident and mature enough to know that their team's success will get them recognition, and sooner rather than later. In bad times, leaders take responsibility for what's gone wrong. In good times, they generously pass around the praise.

#5 LEADERS HAVE THE COURAGE TO MAKE UNPOPULAR DECISIONS AND GUT CALLS.

There are times you have to make hard decisions--let people go, cut funding to a project, or close a plant. Obviously, tough calls spawn complaints and resistance. Your job is to listen and explain yourself clearly but move forward. You are not a leader to win a popularity contest--you are a leader to lead. Don't run for office. You're already elected.

Sometimes making a decision is hard not because it's unpopular, but because it comes from your gut and defies a "technical" rationale. Much has been written about the mystery of gut, but it's really just pattern recognition, isn't it? You've seen something so many times you just know what's going on this time. The facts may be incomplete, but the situation feels very, very familiar to you. Sometimes the hardest gut calls involve picking people. You meet a candidate who has all the right stuff. But something nags at you, and you're left with that uh-oh feeling. Don't hire the guy.

#6 LEADERS PROBE AND PUSH WITH A CURIOSITY THAT BORDERS ON SKEPTICISM, MAKING SURE THEIR QUESTIONS ARE ANSWERED WITH ACTION.

When you are an individual contributor, you try to have all the answers. When you are a leader, your job is to have all the questions. You have to be incredibly comfortable looking like the dumbest person in the room. Every conversation you have about a decision, a proposal, or a piece of market information has to be filled with you saying, "What if?" and "Why not?" and "How come?" Questioning, however, is never enough. You have to make sure your questions unleash debate and raise issues that get action.

#7 LEADERS INSPIRE RISK TAKING AND LEARNING BY SETTING THE EXAMPLE.

These two concepts often get lip service--and little else. Too many managers urge their people to try new things and then whack them in the head when they fail. And too many live in not-invented-here worlds of their own making. If you want your people to experiment, set the example yourself.

Consider risk taking. You don't need to be preachy or somber about your errors. In fact, the more humorous and lighthearted you can be, the more people will get the message that mistakes aren't fatal.

As for learning--again, live it yourself. Just because you're the boss doesn't mean you're the source of all knowledge. Whenever I learned about a best practice that I liked at another company, I would come back to GE and make a scene. Maybe I overstated the case, but I wanted people to know how enthusiastic I was about the new idea.

#8 LEADERS CELEBRATE.

Why does celebrating make managers so nervous? Maybe throwing a party doesn't seem professional, or it makes managers worry that they won't look serious to the powers that be, or that, if things get too happy at the office, people will stop working their tails off.

There is just not enough celebrating going on at work--anywhere. I harped on the importance of celebrating for 20 years. But during my last trip as CEO to our training center in Crotonville, N.Y., I asked the 100 or so managers in the class, "Do you celebrate enough in your units?" Even knowing what I wanted them to say, less than half answered yes.

What a lost opportunity. Celebrating creates an atmosphere of recognition and positive energy. Imagine a team winning the World Series without champagne spraying everywhere. And yet companies win all the time and let it go without so much as a high five. Work is too much a part of life not to recognize moments of achievement. Make a big deal out of them. If you don't, no one will.

I am often asked if leaders are born or made. The answer, of course, is both. Some characteristics, like IQ and energy, seem to come with the package. On the other hand, you learn some leadership skills, like self-confidence, at your mother's knee, and at school, in academics and sports. And you learn others at work--trying something, getting it wrong and learning from it, or getting it right and gaining the self-confidence to do it again, only better.

 

关于情商

关于情商

  EQEmotionalQuotient)是"情绪商数"的英文简称,它代表的是一个人的情绪智力(EmotionalIntelligence)之能力。简单的来说,EQ是一个人自我情绪管理以及管理他人情绪的能力指数。

  早在一九二零年,美国哥伦比亚大学的教授索戴克(E.L.Thorndike)就首先提出了社会智力(SocialIntelligence)的概念,认为拥有高社会智力的人具有了解及管理他人的能力,而能在人际关系上采取明智的行动

  一九二六年推出了第一份社会智力测验(GeorgeWashingtonSocialIntelligenceTest),问卷的题目包括了指认图片中人物的情绪状态,以及判断人际关系中的问题等等。

  然而接下来的几十年,心理学界在这方面的努力停顿了下来,主要因为大家都忙着发展及研究IQ测验,当时认为IQ(亦即一个的数学、逻辑、语文、以及空间能力)会决定每个人的学习及受教的能力,因而会影响将来的工作发展及表现。

  一直到一九八三年,美国心理学家嘉纳教授(HowardGardner)提出了影响现今教育体系甚钜的多元智力理论。他认为原先只重数理语文能力等的传统定义智力的方式(亦即IQ)需要大幅修改,因为一个人的IQ除了对学校学习的成绩有很高的正相关(IQ愈高,功课愈好),对于其它方面,例如工作表现,感情及生活满意度等并无太大的关系。

  嘉纳教授在他的多元智力理论中,多加了几项智力,包括了音乐,体育以及了解自我和了解他人之能力。而这后两项,让社会智力的概念再一次地受到教育界及心理学界的重视。

  第一个使用“EQ”这个名词的人是心理学家巴昂(ReuvenBar-on),他在一九八八年编制了一份专门测验EQ的问卷(EQ-i),根据他的定义,EQ包括了那些能影响我们去适应环境的情绪及社交能力。其中有五大项:(1)自我EQ2)人际EQ3)适应力(4)压力管理能力(5)一般情绪状态(乐观度,快乐感)。

  真正让“EQ”一词走出心理学的学术圈,而成为人人朗朗上口的日常生活用语的心理学家是哈佛大学的高曼教授(DanielGoleman)。他在1995年出版的《EQ》一书(EmotionalIntelligence),登上了世界各国的畅销书排行榜,在全世界掀起了一股EQ热潮。

  高曼发现一个人的EQ对他在职场的表现有着非常重要的影响。举例而言,一个针对全美国前500大企业员工所做的调查发现,不论产业别为何,一个人的IQEQ对他在工作上成功的贡献比例为IQEQ12,也就是说,对于工作成就而言,EQ的影响是IQ的两倍,而且职位愈高,EQ对工作表现的影响就愈大。此外对于某些工作类别,例如行销,业务以及客户服务等等,EQ的影响就更为明显。

  因此高曼针对职场的工作表现,提出了他的工作EQ架构。经过不断的测试和修正,目前高曼的工作EQ内容共有4大项,以及18小项。

  1、自我情绪觉察能力

  (1)意识到自己情绪的变化:解读自己的情绪,体认到情绪的影响。

  (2)精确的自我评估:了解自己的优点以及不足之处。

  (3)自信:掌控自身的价值及能力。

  2、自我情绪管理能力

  (4)情绪自制力:能够克制冲动及矛盾的情绪。

  (5)坦承:展现出诚实及正直;值得信赖。

  (6)适应力:弹性强,可以适应变动的环境或克服障碍。

  (7)成就动机:具备提升能力的强烈动机,追求卓越的表现。

  (8)冲劲:随时准备采取行动,抓住机会。

  3、人际关系觉察能力

  (9)同理心:感受到其它人的情绪,了解别人的观点,积极关心他人。

  (10)团体意识:解读团体中的趋势、决策网络及政治运作。

  (11)服务:体认到客户及其它服务对象的需求,并有能力加以满足。

  4、人际关系管理能力

  (12)领导能力:以独到的愿景来引导及激励他人。

  (13)影响力:能说服他人接受自己的想法。

  (14)发展其它人的能力:透过回馈及教导来提升别人的能力。

  (15)引发改变:能激发新的做法。

  (16)冲突管理:减少意见相左,协调出共识之能力。

  (17)建立联系:培养及维持人脉。

  (18)团队能力:与他人合作之能力;懂得团队运作模式。

  这十八项能力有谁能完全达到?答案是不可能有人完全做到。事实上一个人只要能在这十八项EQ能力中,有五、六项EQ能力特别突出,而且是平均分布在四大项能力中的话,那他在职场上的表现,就会非常亮眼了。不过,这十八项指标为我们指明了作为一个管理者和职业经理人的努力方向和目标。

  要测量工作EQ,目前相当广为使用的量表是情绪能力问卷(ECIEmotionalCompetenceInventory),总共有110个题目,很特别的是ECI使用360度全方位的资料收集方法,它不只是问当事人,也会从他的上司、属下、和同事来了解当事人的工作EQ,得出来的结果当然就比较客观而准确。

  在本部分内容中,我们侧重于五个方面的情商能力训练:

  (1)自我认知能力(自我觉察):认识情绪的本质是EQ的基石,这种随时认知感觉的能力,对了解自己非常重要。不了解自身真实感受的人必然沦为感觉的奴隶,反之,掌握感觉才能成为生活的主宰,面对婚姻或工作等人生大事较能知所抉择。

  (2)自我控制能力(情绪控制力):情绪管理必须建立在自我认知的基础上。如何自我安慰,摆脱焦虑、灰暗或不安,这方面能力较匮乏的人常须与低落的情绪交战,掌握自控的人则很快能走出生命的低潮,重新出发。

  (3)自我激励能力(自我发展):无论是要集中注意力。自我激励或发挥创造力,将情绪专注于某一目标是绝对必要的。成就任何事情都要有情感的自制力——克制冲动与延迟满足。保持高度热忱是一切成就的动力。一般而言,能自我激励的人做任何事效率都比较高。

  (4)认知他人的能力(同理心):同情心也是基本的人际技巧,同样建立在自我认知的基础上。具有同情心的人较能从细微的信息觉察他人的需求,这种人特别适于从事医护、教学、销售与管理的工作。

  (5)人际关系管理的能力(领导与影响力):人际关系就是管理他人情绪的艺术。一个人的人缘、领导能力,人际和谐程度都与这项能力有关,充分掌握这项能力者常是社会上的佼佼者。

EQ对人生和事业的作用

  1EQ与人生

  在生活中,我们常常遇到这样一种现象:一些IQ很高的人并不见得会一定成功,而一些EQ很高的人则必定会成功。为什么呢?因为IQ高的人一般都是专门家,而Eq高的人却具备一种综合与平衡的能力。如果以我们的中华古训来解释一下,那就是一个成功的人应是一个人情练达的人。

    大量研究显示,一个人在校成绩优异并不能保证他一生事业的成功,也不能保证他能攀升到企业领导地位或专业领域的巅峰。虽然我们并不否定在校的学习能力,但在今天这个竞争日益激烈的社会中这绝不是成功的唯一条件。换句话说,在现代社会中EQ的重要性绝不亚于IQ,值得研究的是如何在理性与情感之间求得平衡,否则徒有智慧而心灵贫乏,在这个复杂多变的时代极易迷失方向。

  轰动全国的女研究生被拐卖案,向我们证实了我国EQ教育的空白和匮乏。而震惊全国的马加爵事件,更是在国人心中掀起痛心和惋惜的波澜。因为与同学打牌中别人的一句话,使他丧失理智,失去控制,最后在毁灭了别人的同时,也毁灭了自己。马加爵留给自己短暂人生的最后总结是没有理想是我人生最大的失败。

    如今EQ在国外已被纳入正式教育。美国的学校已开办EQ课程,将其与传统的语言、数学课程并列。在港台地区,EQ也正在成为一门显学。

  在这个日益显出知识重要的社会,技术能力当然是一种重要的途径。我们常听到小孩子说一个笑话:一个笨蛋15年后变成什么?答案是:老板。不过即使是笨蛋,如果EQ高照,职业上的表现也必然略胜一筹。

    诸多证据显示,EQ较高的人在人生各个领域较多优势,无论是谈恋爱、人际关系或是理解办公室政治中不成文的游戏规则,成功的机会都比较大。此外,情感能力较佳的人通常对生活较满意,较能维持积极的人生态度。反之,情感生活失控的人必须花加倍的心力与内心交战,从而削弱了他的实际理解力与清晰的思考力。

  一个IQ高的人和IQ低的人谁更幸福?答案肯定是IQ低的。一个IQ低的人往往无忧无虑。一个IQ高的人往往在做事情时会瞻前顾后。那么我一个EQ高的人和EQ低的人谁更幸福?答案也很明显是EQ高的。IQ低的人可能会进步,但是EQ低的人很容易患抑郁症,最著名的例子是张国荣。EQ低的人在受到挫折时,会很容易拿别人的错误来惩罚自己。高EQ能让我们明白外面的世界很现实,很复杂,也很精彩。自己会走什么道路其实在于你自己的情绪,在于对未来的各种选择。比如说摔倒了,有的人会说真倒霉,有的人会说我要歇一会。对于外面世界的一切的美好,一切的复杂都要靠你的EQ去领会。你要用高EQ去看待一切的不公平,一切的美好。

  在美国,人们流行一句话:智商(IQ)决定录用,情商(EQ)决定提升。事实上,IQEQ都很重要。只不过,在今天这个竞争日趋激烈、知识爆炸、人际关系复杂的社会中更显出其重要性。对于从事与人打交道的职业经理人来说,EQ是一项十分重要而又必不可少的职业素质。

  2EQ与领导者与企业

  美国哈佛大学心理学博士、组织情商研究联合会主席/丹尼尔戈尔曼的最新研究认为,无论你从事何种工作,你的精神状态都将对你的工作效率产生影响。如果你被焦虑、恐惧、不满和敌意所包围,或者被不确定性和疑虑弄得不知所措,那么你的工作效率将极其低下。相反,如果你能得到应有的激励、启发和指导,能够有好的引导,那么你的工作效率和自我管理的效率都将大大提高。因此领导者对员工的自我管理状况具有最终的影响力。

  领导者是指如何借助他人来高效地完成工作任务,领导力则是一种借助他人完成工作任务的艺术。如果你想圆满完成工作任务,那么你必须对员工进行激励、启发、引导和指导,必须虚心倾听他们的建议。领导者还必须及时了解员工对自己言行的反应。领导者必须做到能够让员工释放全部能量,而不仅仅是恪尽职守。

  人们通常将领导者对某事的情感反应作为最有效的反应,并进而自动调整自身的反应。这就意味着在某种程度上领导者设定了情感标准。因此,即使在大公司里,CEO的情绪或者态度都会感染和影响整个公司的情感氛围。所以,情商能够转化为利润、收入和成长性。由于公司情商运用能力的差异使得公司运营利润能够产生20%~30%的差异,这一数据是百事可乐和欧莱雅公司这些世界级企业进行内部研究得出的结论。怎样才能实现这一效用呢?你必须雇佣拥有情商能力的员工,你必须对拥有情商能力的员工予以提拔重用,必须不断增强他们的情商能力。这将给你带来一种战略性的优势。

  美国一家很有名的研究机构调查了188个公司,测试了每个公司的高级主管的智商和情商,并将每位主管的测试结果和该主管在工作上的表现联系在一起进行分析。结果发现,对领导者来说,情商的影响力是智商的9倍。智商略逊的人如果拥有更高的情商指数,也一样能成功。

  成千上万的企业顾问公司和企业培训导师纷纷采信情商作为评估公司员工的工作理论。2001年,强生公司开始在消费产品部测量员工的情感倾向商,选拔重要职位的管理人员。雅芳公司使用相似的情感能力测试来评估员工和培训经理。据统计,《财富》1000强企业中10%的公司在员工招聘及培训中使用着情商测试。大型金融服务公司BB&T设计了7个小时的情商培训项目,每年都有500人左右参加。

June 03

Niu Niu

Niu Niu is my dog. It's a mini pinscher of almost a year old. She has brought me and my family so much joy that our lives are no longer the same with her around. She completely changed my parents' life style basically, who now spend more time out than in house.

We completely indulge her by never putting her on a leash. She is free to go anywhere in the house. Mom takes her out three times a day.She gets extremely hyper whenever we show any sign of going out. She has two dreams, I think: one is to be able to catch a bird; the other is to speak human language. Though she can't speak, she always makes various sounds to help us understand what she wants. We feed her three times a day plus snacks throughout the day, but she is still very fit due to plenty of exercises she gets from climbing stairs and chasing birds or cats.  

We treat her as an important family member. Whenever we come back home, she always jumps to welcome us back. With Niu Niu's selfless love, she makes home more home feeling. When I hug her, it takes off any fatigue of the day.

Niu Niu is a blessing in my life.

Thanks for coming to my space!

Sorry, I have not much to show here. It's hard to find time to write diaries, as I have grown to be used to the fast-paced life style and not used to relaxing and reminiscing. I'm not sure if it's right to be such a workholic, but I don't know why I take so much joy in my work. I guess it's from my blood, like my mom, who never stop working even after retirement. I don't like to look back as much as I want to charge forward. I don't know if I will regret my life style or not someday, but I do want to live up to people's expectations, including my parents, who always want me to be something someday, my bosses, who has high expectations in me, my husband, who gives me the best support all the time, and most of all, my team/my people, whom I want to help get the most out of their time spent with me. It's tiring to always try to meet other's expectations, but I just hate to let people down. I guess I will never be able to stop till my battery is out.

I took some time today to read others' blogs. I wonder what it is in one person that gives him/her such a strong wish to communicate with others and what it is in one person that is so eager to read others' inner thoughts. Is it just human nature?

I enjoyed browsing friends' Photos and surprisingly found some old old friends, who have changed so much in their appearances. It's good to be able to keep in touch this way, though our lives may never cross again.

I enjoy my life and live my life and I hope you, my friend, too.

 

 
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